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I work hard at making sure my blog is an upbeat, positive place to be. Very rarely will you hear me rant, rave, complain, bitch or be snarky. Which is not the case in real life. The last thing I feel people should have when they escape their own life to blogger land is negativity. But sometimes…..it can’t be helped.
So today…I vent.
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I crashed my car last week. It’s totaled. I’m sad. It’s going to car heaven now and I have the difficult task of trying to find a new one. I have headaches now too. Joy.
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My boyfriend is in Iraq. You all know this. Except what you don’t know is his body has been taken over by a beast. Yes. A beast. Our conversations consist of bickering, and more bickering. Fun. He has distanced himself and I miss him. The other him. Blah.
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My neighbor is a psychopath. He does anything and everything to f*ck with me and he has even tried to have someone “make sure she can’t walk.” Yeah. He’s dirty crazy. He’s an unemployed hermit and spends his days grunting, smoking cigars (under my window) and bullying women. He’s been evicted. He’s still here. No one’s answering my phone calls. Grrr.
Ok. I’m done ranting now. I have to go find a car.
But I will leave you with something that makes me happy:
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Ahhh….much better. 
*All pics from Pintrest
Oh on a whole other note, and back to positive me, The Wear to go Girls are doing big things! We’re taking this show on the road! Make sure you check out our tumblr and see where Cheryl is taking us this week!
There’s a rumor we are posting a sneak peek video Friday this week too…
And don’t forget to submit your outfit posts or pics on our FB wall! The best one of the week gets a feature on our tumblr! Plus the inspiration is uplifting and quite frankly I could use it right about now! 
34 Comments
I definitely like my blog and blogging to be an escape from everyday life, but some days you CANT escape it. Any one of those things would be reason to vent and stress, I cant imagine having to deal with the combination of it all! Vent away and know we're here for you!
LADY!!! This just made me sad! I hate when life is SUCKY! I hope that you find a car soon, the the BF snaps out of it and that you sick @$$ neighbor is kicked out ASAP!
We keep talking about meeting up, I am not working and have free time, so let's do it!
You are in my prayers! XOXO
Awwe Mandy!!! You made me tear up!! Thank you for your sweet words. And yes lets definitely make plans. Let me know how your Sunday looks maybe we can have mimosa's and wallow. LMAO!
xoxo
Awww feel better soon love. You're just in a rut! You're BF is stressed, and the hermit will hopefully leave soon.. and if it makes you feel any better.. I've totaled a car and smashed up another one last year (wasn't totaled but it sucked) and had a ticket for just about everything in the book! Speeding, parking, expired registrationg–thank you husband– driving without a license, no seatbelt.. it's pretty ridiculous, but in the scheme of things just remember that a year from now it will all be water under the bridge and not matter. Try to keep that in mind and you'll feel better! We're all here if you need to vent : )
Lindsey thank you for that. I know, ruts happen, and as much as they suck, they're a part of life. Each and every situation is fixable so that's the silver lining. Now…I have to go fix them. LOL
Hey keep yopur chin-up, like the song says "You can't keep a good woman down!
True that Sistah!
Even though I'm not just around the corner, you know you can ask me for anything.
It's really going to suck for him to see you moved on and happy, but like they say, "you never know what you've lost until it's gone". Hopefully he realizes it before it's too late though. :/
I really believe in karma; good and bad – he's going to be really sorry for being such a terrible human being!! You just continue to stay strong.
p.s. we're making you some glitter heels today!
Love ya!
Mel
Awwe, Sweet Mel….thanks Doll
I know you are there and I am lucky to have a friend like you! Things w/ the boy will hopefully be fine but I agree that neighbor has some serious Karma coming his way! Glitter heels! Yaaaaaaay!!!!! 
Oh Jamie I'm so sorry to hear all these, of course don't expect you to feel all happy, cause these are serious but hope things get better soon, the bf getting better and his old him comes back healthy and cheered and that crazy neighbor being taken care of, the car can be solved easier hope you find one soon, sending you my best wishes!
Cess O. <3 <a href="http://blog.cessoviedo.com/">The Outfit Diaries
Thank you Cess! Things will get better soon definitely. I think everything will be fine, sometimes you just gotta vent in order to cope! xox
Aww Jamie, this sounds awful! I am so sorry you have to deal with all of this at once. I seriously hope you get some help getting rid of that creepster neighbor because he sounds like a freak! And I hope the BF comes to his senses very soon. Like the rest of your readers have said, we are here for you if you need any virtual hugs or comfort!!
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girl! I totally feel for you, and feel free to rant because we've all been there and sometimes you just need to let it all out. none of us are perfect and that's what i love about blogging, you get to show people the real you. and sometimes that means you vent! i hope things take a turn for the better for you TODAY
-Kendall
Thank you Kendall! I know you've been having a tough time too so I wish the same for you! xox
ok, thank you first for featuring me on the WTGG blog today! also, i'm so sorry to hear that you are having such a bad time. your neighbor sounds like a royal pain!
also, so sorry to hear about your car–hopefully you will find a new one that makes you feel really happy! damn that L.A. traffic.
<3 my luv!
Haha yeah that LA traffic is a doozer! Thank YOU for the amazing post!! You are fabulous lady!! xox
Boo!
I had a horrible day today too! And here I was thinking that it couldn’t possibly get worse than Monday. Grrr! But cheer up cutie pie! I’m sure u have tons of reasons to smile & Mel making u glitter heels is def @ the top of that list! 
Can’t wait to see em!
Thanks Sweetie! You are adorable. Yes we started the glitter heels today but we need more glitter. I will be sure to share when they're done!
Sorry to hear about your current situation.
Hopefully things will get better soon! My fiance's best friend is a marine and he was definitely different when he came back on leave recently. Hopefully it will pass, but that environment can be really hard on people. Good luck! 
Thanks Tara
hunnnnnnnie! so sorry to hear
my bf always says good things happen to good people- just wait, it'll be your turn in no time. About the bf- fights happen, and in the worst possible moment at times- that too will pass. Your love and respect for each other will hopefully carry you through this rough patch.
chin up lady!
xo Carlina
Awwe thanks Carlina! I hope you're right! Trying to stay positive!
xoxo
Sorry to hear you've gotten some tough breaks, it really is so hard when something happens to get you down and all of a sudden it seems like everything else is crumbling along with it.
I'm sure things will turn around soon, and i'm sure that your family and friends will all help you get through this bit of bad.
Thanks Lyddie
Oh Jaime. I am so sorry you are going through it right now. I totally understand how you feel. There is something definitely going around that is making things just difficult and lame. I hope things get better with the BF. It can be so draining when that portion of your life isn't going well, because it seems to just make everything a little more lackluster and blah. I hope that things start to get better and that you find a great car so you can be hot flossin, dboy ridin dirty soon.
Love,
Angie
thehotnessyourmommawarnedyouabout.blogspot.com.
LMAO! Yeah hot flossin dboy ridin dirty…that's def the goal! hahaha
But yes so true when the bf sitch isn't good it seems like everything else is worse. I'm sure everything will pass just gotta keep on keepin on
Awww Jame, what a week you've had. I'm so sorry and you know what, VENT. LET IT OUT. WHO CARES. You're a real person with real feelings.
Love the photos you chose, esp. the one about people crying.
*sending positive vibes your way* (and negative ones to your neighbour
Thanks BBFF, I'm sending those vibes back at ya! Same goes for you! xoxo
babes, this is what makes you one of my favourite bloggers- you're human. you are not pretending to live in a happy bubble where everything is pink and perfect every single day. I am so happy you can share this with us.
But it makes me SO sad to hear you have been down. Regarding the car, thank God you're ok. forget about the car. About your bf, don't forget what he is surrounded with. Its so hard on them, and he is putting up a hard front… he loves you. You know that. Just be patient….he needs you. And finally regarding the neigbour….please be careful. Have you reported him?
love, Dena xxx
Dena,
xoxo
This is probably the nicest comment I've ever gotten…thank you for your kind words. You are amazing.
I crashed my car and totaled it about two months ago so I TOTALLY understand how you're feeling right now. It's awful. I did finally find a car that I can afford and that I like better than my last one, though! Things will get better even though they feel terrible right now.
Thanks Suzanne! I actually got a new car on Sunday and I love it!
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i had a neighbor above me who was a schizo. i mean literally. sometimes i would be sos cared and sometimes he was totally normal, but a 6'5 300lb dude can be scary! i'm so sorry things are shitty right now. they'll get better. they've got to, right?
Absolutely! They already have. Thanks Elle! xo